Hope this note finds you enjoying cooler temperatures and getting ready to switch out your seasonal clothing needs. Remember: pack away only that which you love; which fits well; which makes you feel great - donate all the rest! Sharing your abundance is so worthwhile, right?
I've been helping some clients recently who are feeling very emotional with their 'right-sizing,' getting ready to move into smaller surroundings in the near future. Their children, even their friends, aren't particularly enthralled with the idea of having their 'stuff.' Yes, indeed: one person's treasures can be seen as another person's junk!
One thing to remember: do not take this personally! As a little blurb in a periodical reported recently: "It's not that your kids don't love you. They don't love your stuff." (Marni Jameson) Having folks see what you are offering and then seeing if they are interested is the way to go, and then truly listen to them. No guilt, please! Again, per Ms. Jameson, "The line between bestow and burden is blurry. They don't need to hold on to your belongings to hold you in their hearts." I agree 100%!
I have read and suggested many books to clients over the years, and recently became aware of a great help for all of you in this situation. It's through AARP, and this workbook will help you tremendously! Easy to fill-in-the-blanks sheets will help you zero-in on what really matters and those items that will be easier to part with. The link below will take you to Amazon, where you can order it for minimal expense. Downsizing the Family Home
One of the most important things about 'stuff' to remember is this: Your memories are NOT tied up with 'the thing.' Tough to accept, but once your memory starts to go, 'the thing' will not spur those memories to come flooding back. So, share those items with those who want them, who want something to remember you by, or better yet, something they can actually use, not just dust periodically.
Here's to acceptance of the changes that are duly coming; to only keeping that which you love and can use; to sharing only that which others truly want and can use themselves!
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